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Jess Mujica's avatar

That reminds me of my own post-partum belly. I was huge and looked like I was carrying twins. Same as you, I'm about 5'3". I went 2 weeks overdue. They induced, yadda, yadda, c-section.

When my son was 5yo, I started jogging. Then I noticed a hernia forming in my belly button. Went to see my doctor and he said I had diastasis recti, which basically meant that my stomach muscles got overstretched and never completely closed. when I laid down on the ground and did a sit-up, a big bulge formed down the center of my abdomen. Not cool!

He basically said there wasn't much to do about it and if I ever had, say, my appendix removed to ask them to take care of my hernia. Excuse me, what?! Nuh, uh.

I found a nurse practitioner online that had a PT course for diastasis and bought the brace (during one hot summer). I wore it religiously, did the PT exercises and took supplements that would help me rebuild the matrix of collagen and help it repair itself.

Results: It worked! And that was 5 years post-partum! Hopeful stories exist!

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Dr. Yamicia Connor's avatar

Thank you so much for sharing my story and for your generous reflections. I’m always grateful when my words resonate, but it’s especially meaningful when they connect with someone who truly knows what it feels like. ❤️

Your account of carrying twins—of navigating the weight, the visibility, and the lingering “twin skin”—struck a deep chord. I smiled at the hospital greeter moment (we’ve all been there!), and I felt the quiet resilience behind every line. There’s something uniquely humbling and human about the postpartum twin experience—how we carry so much, how slowly we release it, and how little of it gets acknowledged.

Yes, 20 years later still counts. Our bodies remember, and so do we. 🌟

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